Examples of common adjectives that carry a gender connotation and alternatives

Gendered adjectives Alternatives
Bossy or pushy Assertive
Emotional or hormonal Passionate, enthusiastic, empathetic
Ditsy Silly
Frigid (no male equivalent) Lacking sexual responsiveness
Frumpy Dowdy and old fashioned
Shrill High pitched, grating voice
Loose (no male equivalent) Having sexual confidence
Hysterical Irrational
Mumsy Dowdy and old fashioned
Virile Strong, energetic